子曰︰「躬自厚而薄責於人，則遠怨矣。」
【譯文】多責備自己，而少責備別人，怨恨自然不會來了。」
《詩經》靜言思之，躬自悼矣。
【譯文】安靜下來細想，暗自悲傷。
請記住，其他人可能完全錯了。但他們不這麼想。不要譴責他們。任何傻瓜都會這麼做。試著去了解他們。只有智慧、寬容、卓越的人才會嘗試這樣做。
Remember that other people may be totally wrong. But they don't think so. Don't condemn them. Any fool can do that. Try to understand them. Only wise, tolerant, exceptional people even try to do that.
Dale Carnegie "A Formula That Will Work Wonders For You"
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