Be friendly

If we (only) have the patience and the candor (真誠) and the desire to get together, we will get together.

A drop of honey catches more flies than a gallon of gall...if you would win a man to your cause, first convince him that you are his sincere friend.

Gentleness and friendliness are always stronger than fury and force.

The sun can make you take off your coat more quickly than the wind; and kindliness, the friendly approach and appreciation can make people change their minds more readily than all the bluster (咄咄逼人的話) and storming in the world.

Carnegie, D. (1981). How to Win Friends & Influence People (Revised Ed.) New York, NY: Pocket Books.

'Hard' stays the same whether it is an adjective or adverb...'Hardly' means 'only just' or 'almost not'.

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In traditional British grammar, the rule is that will should only be used with second and third person pronouns (you; he, she, it, they). With first person pronouns (I and we), the 'correct' verb to talk about the future is shall. ... Equally, not all varieties of British English use 'shall' in these senses.

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