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2025年2月18日星期二

共感式傾聽

intent: intention

autobiography: the story of a person’s life, written by that person

rightness: the quality of being morally good or acceptable

monologue: a long speech by one person during a conversation that stops other people from speaking or expressing an opinion

chatter: continuous rapid talk about things that are not important

mimic: to copy the way somebody speaks, moves, behaves, etc.

    Empathy is not sympathy. Sympathy is a form of agreement, a form of judgment. And it is sometimes the more appropriate emotion and response. But people often feed on sympathy. It makes them dependent. The essence of empathic listening is not that you agree with someone; it's that you fully, deeply understand that person, emotionally as well as intellectually.

    同理心不是同情心。同情是一種認同,一種判斷。有時候,同情是更適當的情感和回應。但人們常常依賴同情,這使他們變得依賴。共感式傾聽的精髓不在於你同意某人;而在於你在情感上和思想上完全、深入地理解那個人。

intuit: to know that something is true based on your feelings rather than on facts, what somebody tells you, etc.

intimidate: to frighten or threaten somebody so that they will do what you want

condescending: behaving as though you are more important and more intelligent than other people

attorney: a lawyer, especially one who can act for somebody in court

momentum: the ability to keep increasing or developing

dumbfounded: unable to speak because of surprise

deplete: to reduce something by a large amount so that there is not enough left; to be reduced by a large amount

Stephen R. Covey "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People"

Online Dictionaries Used:

hk.dictionary.search.yahoo.com

www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com

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