We evaluate---we either agree or disagree; we probe---we ask questions from our own frame of reference; we advise---we give counsel based on our own experience; or we interpret---we try to figure people out, to explain their motives, their behavior, based on our own motives and behavior.
sentiment: a feeling or an opinion, especially one based on emotions
motel: a hotel for people who are travelling by car
underbelly: the weakest part of something that is most easily attacked
stomp: to walk, dance, or move with heavy steps
set-up: a way of organizing something; a system
parenthetically: as extra information in a speech or piece of writing
trudge: to walk slowly or with heavy steps, because you are tired or carrying something heavy
spit it out: to say what is in the mind without further delay
justify: to show that somebody/something is right or reasonable
beat around the bush: to talk about something for a long time without coming to the main point
credibility: the quality that somebody/something has that makes people believe or trust them
moron: (informal) a rude way to refer to somebody that you think is very stupid
dumb: (especially North American English, informal) stupid
authentically: in a way that is true and accurate
When you listen with empathy to another person, you give that person psychological air. And after that vital need is met, you can then focus on influencing and problem solving...As you authentically seek to understand, as you rephrase content and reflect feeling, you give him psychological air.
當你以同理心傾聽他人,真誠地尋求理解,重新表達內容並反映情感,你給了那個人心理上的空氣。滿足了這個重要的需求後,你就可以專注於影響和解決問題。
flunk: to fail an exam, a test or a course
unravel: if you unravel threads that are twisted, woven or knitted, or if they unravel, they become separated
desperately: extremely, especially when talking about bad situations
ridicule: to make somebody/something look silly by laughing at them or it in an unkind way
hypocrisy: behavior that does not meet the moral standards or match the opinions that somebody claims to have
guile: the use of clever but dishonest behavior in order to trick people
literally: exactly
stunned: very surprised or shocked
transcend: to be or go beyond the usual limits of something
resent: to feel bitter or angry about something, especially because you feel it is unfair
affirm: to state clearly that something is true
frantic: done quickly and with a lot of activity, but in a way that is not very well organized
discerning: able to show good judgement about the quality of somebody/something
Stephen R. Covey "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People"
Online Dictionaries Used:
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www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com
www.merriam-webster.com
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