面子工程

顧慮別人的面子是多麼重要的一件事！可是我們又有多少人想到過這一點呢？我們對別人的感情進行折磨，不留一點情面，挑剔別人的錯誤，甚至加以威脅……實際上，我們要做的只不過是花幾分鐘思考一下，然後說一兩句溫和體貼的話，對別人的想法或者做法能夠做到諒解，這樣，就可以避免很多刺激和打擊了。

Letting one save face! How important, how vitally important that is! And how few of us ever stop to think of it! We ride roughshod over the feelings of others, getting our own way, finding fault, issuing threats, criticizing a child or an employee in front of others, without even considering the hurt to the other person's pride. Whereas a few minutes' thought, a considerate word or two, a genuine understanding of the other person's attitude, would go so far toward alleviating the sting!

Dale Carnegie<Let the other person save face>